I can't breathe.

You have discovered your partner has had an affair or multiple affairs, engaged with sex workers, or has a pornography addiction. In the moment of discovery, they feel a sense of relief from all the hiding and deceit and may even come to terms with significant out-of-control sexual behavior. It is all hands on deck getting them the help they need.

But what about you?

At that moment, they begin to heal, but your entire world just shattered. The betrayal can hit at so many levels: vows, monogamy, friendship, health, and even finances. At Empowered Intimacy, I can help you negotiate this pain and try and understand what just happened. I can help with your feelings of isolation because you cannot tell your friends and family what happened out of shame or embarrassment at your partner's behavior.

Should you stay or should you go? Should you tell or keep this private? Getting support from a place of empathy, compassion, empowerment, and grace can fortify your strength at this time in your relationship.